Thursday, July 29, 2010

random ramblings on the theme of organisation

I am not someone who really wants or needs a routine or a hell of a lot of organisation to my life.  At various times I like it - generally when there is something I look forward to coming up that I need to do something for, like Christmas, a new baby on the way, a holiday.  Ianto however does like it.  Thrives on it in fact.  It has to be flexible, but he likes predictablilty.  I struggle with finding a balance we can all enjoy. 
I am also getting the feeling that I 'should' be doing more to facilitate his learning.  Maybe this is coming from the fact that it is not that far off that I will have to register him for homeschooling?  I am feeling the need to get my head around what my approach will be...  What fits our family?  What best makes use of the resources around us?  What best facilitates the small peoples innate urge to learn? 
If any of my followers have any good blogs/links they would like to add I wouldn't argue ;)

Monday, July 26, 2010

A few of my favourite things

* warming my PJ's up on the heater on a cold night 
* Sleeping next to Anouke and smelling her sweet milky breath
* Mastering a new recipe
* Making bread - kneading, rising, kneading, baking, eating...
* Honey cinnamon roasted granny smith apples
* A good book and a cup of tea in the afternoon winter sun

The end of the year is always busy!

And this year is no exception!  August usually kicks off the busy-ness for us and it is slightly earlier than usual this year.  In a couple of weeks we are heading off to see Kestrel and her family in Lismore for 4 days and Aunty Smidge in Melbourne for 2 days.  When we return from our well earned and much anticipated holiday we have a 10 day breather before Aunty Smidge arrives back in the state for our cousins wedding and stays for a bit over a week.  My birthday, while not a milestone this year, is extra special.  I will see Aunty Smidge on my birthday as that is her last day before she heads back to Melbourne so we have a breakfast planned before she gets on the plane that afternoon.  Two days later Aunty Adie gets back from being overseas for two years.  It is the first time I have seen her on my birthday since she went to uni 5 or 6 years ago and I feel truely blessed to be able to celebrate my birthday with both sisters, even if seperately. 
Obviously Anouke doesn't remember her Aunty Adie but she was there when Anouke was born.  Anouke and Ianto do know her however due to the magic of Skype and we are all counting down until she gets back and we can spend some time with her.  We have a couple of camping trips planned and I'm sure many excursions will eventuate as well. 
Between my birthday and Christmas is just about every other birthday in the family, including mum and dad and Anouke, as well as mum and dad's wedding anniversary.  Christmas promises to be a wonderful family affair, with the whole family staying at mum and dads on Christmas eve to make the most of us all being here.  After Christmas is New Years, then Aunty Adie's birthday and then Ianto turns 5! 
Phew, its going to be chaotic, but I love the chaos of the last half of the year!

Inspired

The landscape is speaking to me at the moment.  Midwinter and it is so changeable!
Last night driving home from mum and dads as the sun went down behind the mountain.  Orange/red clouds behind the mountain, purple smudges of lower clouds and the sky so very blue behind it.  The mountains around here are so much a part of my sense of place in the world.  The only time I haven't been able to look out my windows and see mountains is when I lived overseas and I felt it at a very subconscious level.  Mount Wellington is an anchor of sorts, orientating me in the countryside, even when I am at home - a few valleys away and out of sight of it.  It is also a reminder of one of my best friends, Kestrel.  Last year when I kicked out x and needed someone to catch me, Kestrel did.  I landed in her home and soaked up the chaos and family and love there and it calmed my soul and helped smooth the way for me.  Not long after life took Kestrel and her family to another state entirely but watching the mountain and its many moods never fails to remind me of the cups of tea in her kitchen, nestled at the foot of it.
Now that we have moved back to the Huon Valley where I grew up it is the Hartz and Sleeping Beauty that I see most often.  The Hartz peeks up over the hills down river and gives an indication of the weather.  Many times I have watched the rain work its way from the Hartz and up the opposite side of the river.  Most often staying there.  There hasn't been much snow on it this year but on a crisp clear morning you can often see its white cap against the brilliant blue sky...
Sleeping Beauty dominates the landscape as you leave the Huon and was the feature of many fairy tales in my head as I grew up.  Her face can be shrouded in cloud, dusted with snow or just lying there, perfectly serene under a crystal clear sky.  She can be camoflagued against a dark grey cloud or disappear completely.  I occupied myself on many drives to town imagining different stories for her and I still catch myself doing it now.


The other thing that anchors me in the landscape is the prescence of water.  Another thing that has been a constant throughout my life has been a river near by, either the Huon or the Derwent.  The Derwent bringing a cool sea breeze on hot summer days, just when the heat becomes unbearable.  Watching the rain come across the Derwent, lightening on the opposite hills, dolphins and seals and once a labrador!  It is still a source of joy when we visit mum and dad and go down to throw rocks in the water, collect shells and smooth bits of glass, or in summer wait til the sun goes down a bit and go for a swim.
The Huon is the river of my childhood and present.  Each morning I can look out my kitchen window and see a hint of what the day might bring.  Fog often sits on the river til late in the day and sometimes around the house too.  On the days when there are just wisps of fog on the river and a frost on the lawn I know the day will be crisp and clear and beautiful.  I know as we drive into Huonville we are likely to see the river smooth as glass on days like that.  At the moment it is full, flooding some of the low lying paddocks on its banks.  It looks slow and langorous but looks are deceptive.  Underneath it is deep and the current strong.  There is a tree in the river about half way to Huonville and it has been stuck there for a couple of months now, not moving.  I find it amazing - to have not moved it must be a fairly large tree and all you can see sticking up is a single, thick branch.  Still waters do indeed run deep!

Friday, July 23, 2010

Crafty Friday

Well, it is supposed to be, but what with one thing and another getting around 10 kids aged between18 months and 7 doing anything resembling organised craft is difficult! 
We attempted it today, but it didn't happen again.  The Snowflakes and Ianto weren't getting along all that well, and various other participants slept in so in the end we spent the afternoon at the park in Huonville.  It was a good call on the part of Mrs Ogg.  Neutral territory and nothing huge in the way of arguments all afternoon.  It was every so slightly freezing for us mamas, but we dealt with it lol.

We are hoping next week to have enough people organised at the same time to take advantage of the huge amount of boxes sitting in the hall.


In the meantime, I have 10 kg of clay sitting in front of me that I am planning on using to make a scale model of the house I would like to build.  I am finding it hard to draw plans in 2 dimensions, and was planning a vision board anyway - building a scale model seems like a pretty good way to combine the two.  Having a 3D diorama of what I want should keep me in line and on the right path to achieving it I hope!

Thursday, July 15, 2010

One perfect moment

I just stepped outside to grab my phone that I had left in the car yet again.  It is 10.30 at night, in July.  It is cold out there, but wow.  I had flicked on the outside light so that I could see my way to the car and normally it would have been a quick run out to the car and back to the warm house and bed but I just happened to look up.

And there I stayed.  On the deck, in my pjs, in the perfect, crisp night.  I looked up, the sky was perfectly clear - the Milky Way looking just like a splash of hot milk, the stars pin pricks, only the sounds of frogs from the dam over the back paddock to disturb the peace.  For one perfect moment I stood and soaked up the perfection and then retired back into the warm, followed by a sense of peace and calm...

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Opps, its been a while!
Although there is not a lot going on.  We have found a pretty good rhythm now of days at home and days out doing things.  Trying to strike a balance between socialising and having time to regather ourselves and find our centre.  The consideration that housework needs doing occasionally comes in too, but getting on top of that is still a work in progress lol.  I'm in the process of washing the carpets and rearranging the furniture to see if I cn streamline the way we live in the house a bit more, especially as now that it is cold we are living on the inside more. 

I have started menu planning to try and get the food costs under control and it worked last fortnight.  We are heading out to the supermarket today so I'm hoping it will work again

We spent the day yesterday at Hastings Thermal Springs with some other families.  It was cold, but the pool was nice and warm.  Ianto was in with me while Mama Ogg looked after Anouke and went back in after lunch with Daddy Snow and the three snowflakes as well.  He had a wonderful time even if he did tell me through chattering teeth that he wasn't cold!  A stint in front of the open fire provided in the BBq shelter fixed that though and he spent the rest of the day running around chasing currawongs in his Spiderman dressing gown.  Anouke had a wonderful time shouting at them and despite deciding the pool was too cold tried to jump in a couple of times.  Thank goodness for having a lot of parents around to keep an eye on all the kids! 

It was a fun day and we are hoping to plan more group outings like it.  Its nice to get all the families together including fathers who are so often missing when we get together during the week as they earn the money that means the mothers can stay home.  I think it is also good for Ianto and Anouke to see fathers who are true partners to their wives and take an active role in being part of the family.